Love is love

Your son loves dolls and your daughter loves trucks, does this make you a bad parent?

Does your bread taste different because your Baker practices a different faith to you?

Do you have to stop eating meat because your neighbour is vegan?

Do you ask your surgeon their sexual orientation before they save your life?

Will you be taxed more if you have a gay accountant?

Do your children still learn the alphabet and how to do math if their teacher loves the same sex?

Does having dark skin prevent you getting married?

Does having Blonde hair prevent you getting married?

Does being a criminal prevent you getting married?

How would you feel if someone told you that marrying your spouse was wrong. Not allowed?

How would you feel if your neighbour “couldn’t cope” with what you do in your home?

How would you feel if the country decided who you could marry.

I don’t believe I should choose someone’s husband or wife.

I don’t believe it impacts me at all how any other person lives their life.

I don’t believe I am superior to any other human

I don’t believe I can say No and be a good human

I don’t believe in supporting hate

I support equality for all

I believe love should be embraced, and celebrated.

I say Yes!!!!!

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Announcement: Ladies of Brisbane!!!

Apparently America heard of our shortage of eligible, employed bachelors and decided to ship 4500 men in uniform over to our shores to love, worship and marry us all… better hurry in and snap one up before the ship sails

Edit- sorry ladies, in all the excitement I muddled up love, worship and marriage with alcohol, hotel rooms and accidental pregnancy whoops!!

Who's keen? 😉

Husband Requirements PART 2

I want a real man. 

Is that even a thing these days?? 

I feel like people in general are of a shallow nature, showcasing their outer physical attributes rather than their deeper real self. 

There seems to be an abundance of men that look like they are characters in a cartoon. Gym selfies and mountaintop pics is every second profile pic. (They may be the perfect man, but I overlook these images) Is this really portraying who you are? As much as physical attraction is very important, the photos placed in these profiles can be the portrayed in a different sense. I look at some, and they are gorgeous men, clearly very dedicated to perfecting their bodies, pictures of pure fitness (and very nice eye candy), but they make me uneasy. I automatically feel every spare moment of theirs will be filled with bettering their bodies and nothing outside of that. 

Then, there’s the drunken group shots. Bottles of beer, spirits and the like, 5 or 6 men pulling faces, having a great time but it’s not really portraying a man that wants grown up lifestyle. Have fun, always, but these to me are pics for your friends, not ones to find a potential love interest. 

There are beautiful shots of men with family, their muchloved pets, and uninhibited, unexpected snapshots of them living their real lives. Sitting at a desk, mowing the lawn, playing with children, relaxing at the beach. These are the pictures I want to see. When someone’s eyes are lit up talking to a loved one and has a random, unposed photo taken it shows more about them as a person. I think it’s beautiful.

I want deep. A man that fills his profile with words. Explanations of what makes their blood run hot or cold, what are your passions, your goals, your dreams and relationship expectations?

I want someone who is completely transparent, and honest. Someone whom is not still discovering himself. Someone who knows how to treat people right, but is strong enough not to be walked over. 

Strength in themselves, standing by their choices and decisions, not needing another person to make them whole, but wanting someone to take this life journey along side them.

Someone that respects family and a family lifestyle above their own selfishness and wants. 

Someone that is passionate about me and life. 

Someone that’s not afraid to feel and feel deeply, intensely and passionately.

Someone that knows how to make their dreams reality- not just talk about them.

Someone generous with their time and knows how to make a relationship a priority.

Someone that is ready to have joint goals. Who is there to build up their partner, and who is wanting a partner to also help them achieve their dreams. Together you can conquer so much. 

It’s going to take someone really special to alter my single status. 


Aftermath – who is the real Villain

Who would’ve thought one little post of positivity could have become such a crazy web of lies, deceit and ultimately exposing a cheater.

My whole world was turned upside down overnight because of this “supposed” sweet gesture.
Yes, I wanted to share a lovely sweet story to the world,(we don’t have enough happy tales in our everyday life at the moment) did I expect it to turn into this, no.

I must say, this has shown me a lot about human nature, and I’m quite devastated at people’s reactions. I’ve been annihilated for sharing a happy experience. Wow.

Was I to know when I received the letter there was others?
Was I to know he had a girlfriend?
Was I to know he is clearly incredibly deranged?

No.

I’m actually no victim here at all, his beautiful (ex) girlfriend – and perhaps others are. This is a man that has mislead many and ultimately has broken people along the way to satisfy his own crazy, selfish needs. He is the villain in this story.

I actually am glad he put this note on my windscreen. Now I am thrilled he has been exposed. Let’s hope this stops his sick games.

I am a romantic at heart. This doesn’t deter me or change my opinions of all men. He was just a very bad egg.

Thankyou to everyone that did read the facts, and my friends and family- you guys are the best x

Update – the plot thickens about the note leaving Josh 

So everyone’s wanting an update on my windscreen Valentine’s letter.
The plot has thickened…
People, the search for the man of my dreams is not over. Upon messaging this man over the last 48ish hours, his messages have gone from sweet and endearing to a little bit weird and creepy. Although it was an exciting moment, nothing is going to eventuate from this with him. I’m actually concerned of his intentions completely.
Imagine my surprise this morning when I find out Its not as romantic as I first thought. My stomachs butterflies and excitement was wasted on whom I thought was Prince Charming . Jilted, again.

Clearly Josh has a type. He is apparently a serial note leaver.

I think being blonde haired and blue eyed and being at the particular servo I stopped at just meant I fitted his “breathtaking” criteria.
 My story has been sent all over the world at the moment. And it has been brought to my attention that this isn’t the first time Josh has done this.
I am being sent the same note from people (exact). I’m finding it quite amusing that what I thought was such a sweet gesture is actually a regular occurrence for him. So I wasn’t that special to him after all – just one of many. He also even left it for a beautifully pregnant blondie at the same location. (I’m glad he doesn’t discriminate lol)
Thanks for making me smile for a day Josh, although maybe you’ll need a different location to drop off your notes now. Lovely and sweet gesture, but maybe exciting people in this way isn’t the way to go unless you are legitimately looking for someone with my intentions.

I am glad I’ve entertained all my friends though lol 

Keep posted….

My quest continues…

The Little Things 

So today I was lucky enough to have a note left on my car windscreen while running into a servo for a coffee fix.

Total shock when I saw a folded up piece of paper under my wiper. First thought before opening it- great, I’ve cut someone off on highway and they thought they’d leave me an aggressive message to tell me off haha. 

Not the case. To my amazement, all it said was, “Hi just had to say wow you are breathtaking, Josh (and a phone number) 

I nearly fell over. Who does this? This is so old school, handwritten, on paper and so gutsy and romantic. He had no idea if I was single, married, gay etc, yet did it anyway. 

It honestly has made my day- maybe even week. It’s the little things that make me smile.
The craziest part of this is just this weekend I was talking to friends about this. Asking why more men don’t write letters. It’s beautiful and handwritten notes will be kept and cherished, not deleted or lost in a web of emails and texts.

It’s so nice to realise someone has taken a few moments of their day to be thoughtful for you.
Us ladies don’t always want or need hundreds of dollars spent on flowers or jewels, it’s the little things that make us smile.

Helping around the house, a needed sleep in, dinner taken care of, or in this case a handwritten note. The smile has not left my face for this sweet gesture.
Whether or not I meet this thoughtful man, or whether we hit it off or not.. he made my day today

Thankyou.
Ok men… be like Josh